for your beautiful soul

shall post this real short and sweety, some words that ran past my mind while watching fav oprah show this morning.

"...we can't be mind readers all the times. we just have to make our requests and needs known to one another..."

this is so true for all types of relationships and friendships to work out well. be it parents and children, husband and wife, between you and your in- laws, between you and your colleague, even between you and your closest pal and many many others. at times, we may take our closest ones for granted and expect them to know what our thoughts are and understand the situations we are in. even when you have found your better half or you think you have, it is still very much your responsibility to make your thoughts and requests known to your better half. come on, we have not reach the place called heaven, so it's very common sense that sometimes, there will people who, in their best ability and knowledge did their best to understand our needs, yet, at certain times, they still would not be able to be mind readers of our thoughts and needs.

since most of my blog readers are of single and available status, i would want to encourage you to look into the friendships around you now. i shared this with jency, ting and joyce two days ago: "long friendships like this are hard to come by, we gotta treasure it and appreciate one another..." yea, God made us so unique as an individual, thus, we ought to appreciate one another's unique-ness just as how God would have appreciate and love those unique-ness in us too. here's what aunt jane smsed me the other day: "just think wat would Jesus do in this situation"

sum it up, communication is key to understand one another's intentions better. at this very moment, i thought of the bible. woww.... God has all intentions to know us and to make His love, truth and wisdom known to His people too. that is, through His Word. Let's cherish His Word yea? and of course the peeps around us :)

listening: Yi Lu Xiang Bei by Jay Chou